How about some "first time cheating" confessions?
What was it like?
Friend, in - law, a stranger?
How was he or she built?
Have you done it since?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 1, 2004 at 3:01 PM

my first time was last night
and he was cheating, too!!

the sex was great, very hot, lots of fun
but in the back of my mind the entire time i knew that i probably shouldn't have been doing what i was doing
i'm struggling with how i feel about it today

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 12, 2004 at 6:10 PM

Married/faithful for nearly 20 years, recently started an affair. It was freakin unbelievable, until just lately when I got her (GF) pregnant. Don't jump to conclusions - this was just about statistically impossible. Anyhow, at first things were amazing. Sex was incredible, and since she/I were both in fairly happy & successful marriages, there were no committment issues. I love my wife dearly, and she her husband, but with a spouse the day to day grind takes such a toll.

She & I got together about once a month, and the only agenda was mutual pleasure. No bills/home repairs/kids (her)/job stress (me), just flat-out fabulous sex. In spite of our best efforts, I was lucky to get lucky with my wife three times a month. With my girlfriend, I was able to get lucky two or three times in an afternoon.

Like I say - life was good. And then she got pregnant. We are not 100% sure what we are going to do at this point, but none of the options are good.

Six months ago, I'd have said "go for it." I was on top of the world - great wife, great lover. Hindsight is 20/20. Three words - DON'T DO IT!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 8, 2004 at 3:12 PM

My first time was unplanned. We were both happily married and definitely not looking. The appeal of sex can be overpowering in the right situation. The fear of getting caught is no match for the excitement of sex with a new and mysterious woman. That's exactly what happened. The guilt come later. But even the guilt disappeared with time.

I still love my wife. But I would not take back the night I spent with my lover.

The sex of an affair is passionate, physical and energetic. It's different than making love to your wife. Both are great, but different.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 12, 2005 at 4:53 AM

Gosh, it's amazing how most people feel they owe nothing to the Nature which brought them about!
The deal is that you get the enormous pleasure of sex and nature gets the possibility of new life.
If you're not capable of living up to that deal, then don't play the game!
You ought to look at the great amount of loyalty and devotion you devote to your society - your country, your job, your friends, your social obligations, etc. - and consider giving to nature a bit of that homage.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 12, 2005 at 5:04 AM

That's a load of crap. There is no "deal." I didn't make a deal with anyone ... if there was a "deal," then sex with contraception would be painful, or at least not pleasurable. The fact is, conception is not necessary for sex - there are many times in a woman's cycle it is not possible (if there was a "deal," then there would never be any "safe" windows), and there is nothing, morally, ethically, or otherwise, wrong with preventing conception on purpose. If Nature has this deal, then where is Nature when it comes time to buy diapers, or feed or clothe the child, or send him to college? If Nature wants to pay for all that, then I'd think about giving up my contraception.

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