At first I convinced myself that there was some reasonable explanation but the only one that made sense was that she was cheating. It took awhile but I slowly got her laptop and phone passwords by carefully watching her enter it. it was the last four numbers of her mother's phone number. I purposely stayed up late a few times to sneak off with her phone and laptop.
Well she's cheating all right with two different guys (Mike & Derek) and her two best friends, who I thought were friends of mine too, not only know but both of them encourage her to do it.
Both of her friends knew of the pregnancy scare. One wanted her to get an abortion, the other wanted her to have it even though it would obviously not be mine. I'm a little unsure if she was really pregnant or not because one of the emails to the pro-abortion friend said that if she got an abortion she would tell the other friend it was a false alarm.
As far as I can tell she's been meeting these guys for awhile and I've been in the dark. I am out of town frequently and she goes out for a lot of girl's nights out which now is obviously a cover for her cheating. Nothing in the email explains why or how this happened but some of her friends comments include things like "you deserve this", "He's (me!) never going to find out", "it was a mistake, either make them wear condoms or get the damn shot" (which I assume is a birth control thing."
There was also some references to me which were rather unflattering like "he's a nice guy but....." type things. "He's a great husband but your still young and a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do". "Stop worrying about him. He doesn't know, he's not gonna know and in ten years it won't matter, it's just sex." And the killer "lol, every woman I know would love to be fucking two guys with huge dicks and you're complaining about it." to which she replied "Ha ha ha...I know right"
I love my wife and family and honestly, I probably would have been happy if I never found out but unfortunately I have. I have to confront her but I really don't want to lose her. I'm kinda lost.