I found a box in my wife's dresser. It was a home pregnancy test. One of the tests was missing. It hadn't expired yet so I knew it wasn't all that old. Here's the problem. I had a vasectomy 13 years ago after our last child was born.

At first I convinced myself that there was some reasonable explanation but the only one that made sense was that she was cheating. It took awhile but I slowly got her laptop and phone passwords by carefully watching her enter it. it was the last four numbers of her mother's phone number. I purposely stayed up late a few times to sneak off with her phone and laptop.

Well she's cheating all right with two different guys (Mike & Derek) and her two best friends, who I thought were friends of mine too, not only know but both of them encourage her to do it.

Both of her friends knew of the pregnancy scare. One wanted her to get an abortion, the other wanted her to have it even though it would obviously not be mine. I'm a little unsure if she was really pregnant or not because one of the emails to the pro-abortion friend said that if she got an abortion she would tell the other friend it was a false alarm.

As far as I can tell she's been meeting these guys for awhile and I've been in the dark. I am out of town frequently and she goes out for a lot of girl's nights out which now is obviously a cover for her cheating. Nothing in the email explains why or how this happened but some of her friends comments include things like "you deserve this", "He's (me!) never going to find out", "it was a mistake, either make them wear condoms or get the damn shot" (which I assume is a birth control thing."

There was also some references to me which were rather unflattering like "he's a nice guy but....." type things. "He's a great husband but your still young and a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do". "Stop worrying about him. He doesn't know, he's not gonna know and in ten years it won't matter, it's just sex." And the killer "lol, every woman I know would love to be fucking two guys with huge dicks and you're complaining about it." to which she replied "Ha ha ha...I know right"

I love my wife and family and honestly, I probably would have been happy if I never found out but unfortunately I have. I have to confront her but I really don't want to lose her. I'm kinda lost.

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by Anonymous on Nov 2, 2013 at 6:49 PM

Brother you lost her already...Time to get revenge on your buddy first...then I would also go after her...you are being played the fool...you could also confront her and tell her you are going to tell the guys wives if the are married or you could open up craiglist and get some on the side and tell her that...she will be so pissed.

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by Anonymous on Nov 3, 2013 at 2:21 AM

I was thinking about your problem....
I would do the following.
Tell both guys separately that you got VD from your wife...and you are asking their advice on how to handle. Then wait to see what happens...but have the pregnancy test when she confronts her.
Next tell her that you will begin to go on to find something for you on the side since she is getting...women hate sharing trust me on this...then you will have to deal with her.good luck

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by Anonymous on Nov 3, 2013 at 1:14 PM

Talkaboutmarriage.com I had pretty much the same thing happen to me. You will find all the answers you need on there.

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by Anonymous on Nov 3, 2013 at 4:00 PM

I went to that sight. thank you.

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by Anonymous on Nov 4, 2013 at 12:25 PM

Just went through something very similar, however I don't have kids and it was in the first year of marriage. IF you decide to get a divorce, make sure you File first before she knows about it! It's a hard decision to make, but it saved me from getting kicked out of my own house.

Depending on what State you are in, even if her name is not on the house and she beats you to filing divorce. She can legally kick you out of your own house, even if she decides not to stay there..atleast she can kick you out until the Judge makes a decision. My one mistake, was not taking her wedding ring before I had her served papers. It was worth ALOT, and she sold it to pay her lawyer...this divorce is costing me alot. So if you decide to divorce, BE PREPARED!

Good luck..

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by Anonymous on Nov 4, 2013 at 5:53 PM

Get video for the divorce hearings. Deliver several through beatings, throw them into the street. Then file for divorce and get alimony from her, threatening to make the video public.

That should do it.

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by Anonymous on Nov 5, 2013 at 10:56 AM

would find her sleeping and tie her to the bed, kids gone and no phone in sight. Would get a pile of dog shit and pack up her pussy. Using sewing needle and thread seal this pussy shut. She will pass out from the pain and that's good. Would leave her tied there for a few days. Untie her and toss in the woods alone and nude. See how she likes being fucked.
If she comes back home she might act a little strange, bet she does not fuck anyone for a while.

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by Anonymous on Nov 12, 2013 at 10:48 AM

If no children are involved you need to cut your losses.
Without knowing your wife or the full circumstances the fact remains that she cheated on you. If you can not deal with that fact by becoming a wife sharer or cuckold then you need to bail out. There is now ay in hell you can ever trust her again, or should you. You need to consult a lawyer early on and in total secret to get the facts on your position

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