So this is really embarassing but I actually never slept with a man before, I never been kissed by a man,I never had a boyfriend before because my family is religious so I shouldn't been fooling around with men before marriage.But I always wanted to know what a woman feels when she has sex for the very first time with a man, how much is pleasure and how much is pain and what to expect when you are fully naked in front of your man?How intense is that feeling when he first enters you?
I actually want to hear the experience from both sides what do men feel when they have sex with a virgin woman?How do you guys act when your girlfriend never had sex and she is freaking out?I really want to find out how many of you guys would you sleep with a virgin, I read that the older you get the painful deflowering will be, is this even true?There are so many things that I wanna know so please tell me your love experience from your first time.

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by Anonymous on Dec 27, 2016 at 7:51 PM

Probably any guy who reads this would be very very happy to deflower you. I would, although you are a bit too young for me.
I cannot tell you exactly how it feels, since I am not a woman, but I have been pegged and it takes a couple of things: feel comfortable with the other person and be honest with that person so that you communicate well throughout the experience. Lube also helps a lot. Maybe you have a wet pussy, but not all women do always get very wet and a bit of lube makes it much more bearable. I am pretty big which has been a bit of an issue at times when lube was not at hand. One other trick is to first have an orgasm by masturbating. At that point things should be nicely warmed up and ready to have a great fuck. Lastly, relax, enjoy it. I am sure you will!

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by Anonymous on Dec 27, 2016 at 9:38 PM

Relax and enjoy it. I was a horny teenager and so was she... I think it will help you if you are horny and wet if not wet have lube. All I can remember when taking a girls verginity was that my penis was not going all the way in but in one good thrust I popped her sherry and went all the way in. I'm not a big guy 6/6.5" and it was great from then on everytime we had sex... Make sure you want to do it. And to be honest it's a good thing you're a virgin and will be giving yourself to your future husband someday. You'll have a trusting bond right away. So don't worry to much about it.

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by Anonymous on Dec 27, 2016 at 10:05 PM

I have taken a few cherries and as long as there is a lot of foreplay and your man isn't in a big hurry you'll do fine. You probably would do will with all over tongue bath and a couple of orgasms before he tries to stick it in. I always liked to eat the girls out and give them a couple of orgasms first and then it's real easy. Love to show you....if you're interested.

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by Anonymous on Dec 27, 2016 at 10:06 PM

When you turn 24 God turns the hymen into a solid impenetrable barrier. You now have to become a nun.

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by Anonymous on Dec 28, 2016 at 12:16 AM

To the guy above me no it will not. You think there is going to be some sort of force field. Take it slow and you have to touch yourself to see what turns you on. And yes I suggest that you orgasm first or squirt that way when the guy sticks his penis inside you it will slide in. Enjoy yourself. You have to tell guys what you like. Guys are not mind readers and they don't know what you want. You have to tell them what turns you on. That is my tip to you. Have fun.

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by Anonymous on Dec 28, 2016 at 1:30 AM

I've been lucky enough to take 3 in my younger years and 1 while in my fifties, some are tighter than others just like men's dicks are different sizes. I'm just on 8 inches and trust me it will go in but you have to make sure the pussy is wet and ready to accept a hard dick. One of the best ways is oral on the pussy relax and enjoy the moment. You might feel a little pain but if the man knows what he's doing you will be fucking hard in no time. All the best youn lady. By the way any man would love to take your cherry but make sure you choose someone that's going to put your interest first ok?

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by Anonymous on Dec 28, 2016 at 4:32 AM

I would love the chance to be your future husband. I've never met anyone who has held onto their virginity past 14 years old. Sadly also means I've never taken a virgin, nor have I ever had sex with someone who hasn't already given birth. No tight vagina for me. So big kudos to holding onto your innocence. Don't worry to much about the possibility of pain. If all the future husband is, is in a rush to get you into bed then there's a very good chance he's only thinking short term into the relationship. (Wham, bam, woohoo, now what) instead of (trust, commitment, family, house, etc.) In the meantime yes I would make sure you are comfortable with your own body and sexuality. At 21 chances of finding another virgin male will be hard. You will more than likely find someone who has experience, and with experience comes certain turn ons and favorites, such as positions, preferences on oral, or even anal. So the ability to get this information from your future candidates and comparing with what you know about yourself will save a lot of trouble in the future. Such as trust, infidelity(if one is to bland for the other). Make sure he's truly patient with you, I mean truly patient not just yes hun I will wait until the time is right. The stress of thinking you should get him to bed as soon as possible to keep him should never be at your forethought. I would just relax with the right guy it won't hurt much at all. Instead it will be one of most intense rush of joyous emotions that you won't be able to get enough of. You may even cry out of pure joy. Good luck to you, really wish I could be the lucky one.

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by Anonymous on Dec 28, 2016 at 7:40 AM

Thanks for all the comments to everyone, this means so much to me to know what guys think about a clueless girl when it comes to sex.I am actually a college student now and there is a boy interested in me but he doesn't know I didn't have any relationship before so I am afraid he will freak out if he finds out.

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by Anonymous on Dec 28, 2016 at 9:46 AM

There is really nothing "special" about waiting for your husband but you also shouldn't just jump in bed with some guy right away. Any guy you date should earn it so you make the call when it happens but there is never a good reason to wait until marriage just to be "pure" because, once you're not, you have to live with this man the rest of your life and the wedding night is a terrible time to realize your husband awful at it. Even if you and your husband click sexually, 5, 10, 15 years down the road you'll have kids and settle down but always wonder what other guys were like when you were young and fit. Religion is a terrible reason to stay a virgin but common sense is a good reason so you decide when you're ready and ignore the "purity" bullshit unless you plan to marry some old fashion religious man who needs a "slave" at home rather than an equal partner wife.

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by Anonymous on Dec 28, 2016 at 12:37 PM

I feel the same that I shouldn't sleep with the first guy that likes me I am not that desperate but I do want a relationship no matter what my parents say, I don't care if it is wrong to have sexual intercourse before marriage I deserve to be happy too I have friends that are my age and have boyfriends since thet were 18-19 years old, or have boyfriends since highschool amd now they are engaged.It is very hard to see that everyone is happy and I am very sad and lonely because my parents doesn't approve having a relationship.And I don't really mind the age difference I have been attracted to older guys in their mid thirties or fourties I think I want to have a relationship with a mature guy even though I like younger guys like myself.I just have to find someone who loves me enough to let me take the decision when we will make love for the first time.

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by Anonymous on Dec 28, 2016 at 12:55 PM

When you turn 20 the wizard gandalf will tell the guy "you shall not pass"!

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by Anonymous on Dec 29, 2016 at 10:46 AM

I am the OP and I have one more question, is it better to use condom or not for the first time?

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by Anonymous on Jan 1, 2017 at 10:27 PM

Always use a condom.
It doesn't matter in terms of virginity.
Please do tell us about your first fuck!

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