My father is a hypocritical, overbearing, overweight, drunk. He takes my paychecks and doesn't give me anything. He doesn't listen, just lectures. I'm "always wrong" and to be honest, I can't stand being in the same room as him. Sometimes I wish I was brave enough to kill myself in front of him. Maybe then he'd understand how he makes me feel when he does all this shit.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 9, 2009 at 11:19 AM

Just move out.
It's that simple.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 10, 2009 at 6:44 PM

move out killing yourself is the cowards way out.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 10, 2009 at 8:59 PM

Its not just as easy as moving out - but you need to work out a plan to get away and NEVER go back. Try to save a little cash and hide it where he will never find it, dont know if you are male or female but confide in someone else and try to get a place organised for when you do run. Hope hes not sexually mucking around with you because a plan takes time but you need to work on it to make sure when you do go - its final and he cant find you and bring you back.
Dont worry about the person talking about cowards what a load of crap, they havnt been in your shoes.
Good luck and hope it goes well for you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 23, 2009 at 2:13 AM

Had one of those. I outlived the dick thank heavens. Don't bother trying to get through to him - he's too wrapped up in his own sense of righteousness. If anything you did ever made an impact, it would be YOUR fault or he would cast HIMSELF as the victim.

You might have an ally, though. Do you have siblings that you know about? (When my dad died, his obituary did not mention his three sons at all. But his daughter - whom none of us have ever met - was prominently mentioned. And from her age, she was conceived while my dad was married to my mom.) At least you can have moral support if he treats any siblings like he does you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 18, 2009 at 4:13 AM

I don't mean to talk your confession down.
But I hate my dad too because he sexually abused me when I was 12-13.
Your dad sounds like a complete asshole, can't you get away from him?
I can't get away from mine...because he has totally repressed any memory of it happening I believe, (the abuse stopped when I was 13) and bringing it up (if I ever could) would destroy my family, not because him and my mother are still married, but think how his parents would feel!! And how my mum would feel for ever marrying him??
And then I would have to go to counseling to talk about it which I don't think I can do.
Anyway, I think you should get away from him if you can.
Do it for the people who can't.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 9, 2010 at 4:31 AM

sounds like my pops...except for the drunk part...that doesn't make him any less of a piece of shit

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