My wife is in the full swing of being a milf sexually speaking. We've been together since we were kids and are the same age, just a few months apart. She didn't start having regular orgasms until around 27, and it's been fun to try all kinds of different positions, toys, and play to help her cum. All those years she was screwing me and not having orgasms, the least I could do was try to please her. I think we peaked about two years ago, when our work schedules were much more flexible and we were happier overall. Now, sex has to be a scheduled thing and we're lucky if we get a few good ones in between her periods. "Having it all" certainly kills your free time, to say the very least. She's always been of the mindset that if we don't have mind-blowing sex "we can try again tomorrow. That's the good thing about sex!"

What makes this embarrassing for me is, well, me. Like I said, she's in full bloom it would seem and our routine - where we play, she blows me for awhile, then I finger her g-spot while she vibes to an orgasm before she rides my cock or I take her from behind - has the unfortunate side effect that I can't last for shit. Not but a couple of years ago, I could drill this girl into the bed and have her moaning like a farm animal and cumming all over my cock. Now we're lucky to get a ten minute experience and I feel pathetic. I joke that she's just better than me, and has me so wound up for her I can't last, but that's the language of a guy who's going to lose his wife to some other guy very soon. Especially given what I'm seeing on this site, it's only a matter of time till I'm cucked, and goddammit that idea hurts like hell. I don't find it arousing at all and don't want to share her.

I don't know what to do; I'm in the best shape of my life (seriously, I've finally conquered YEARS of weight and other health issues in the past three years). I'm still attractive, I get attention from other women (some who blatantly want to try out my wife's favorite toy themselves). My wife makes me feel like an absolute king in the bedroom, even though her cock riding skills are sub-par I'm still perfectly satisfied, just guilty that she isn't having the mind-blowing, multi-orgasmic sex I used to be able to give her.

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by Anonymous on Mar 31, 2017 at 2:18 AM

I know how you feel, but if she needs to complain, she will.

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by Anonymous on Mar 31, 2017 at 7:14 AM

I feel your pain I am in my 40's and I can't do what I used to do in bed, good things she love oral sex. I can eat her pussy for hours until she cum in my mouth. My penis had gotten smaller and soft not sure why. We purchase this hollow strap-on dong where I can strap it on and fuck her with it. She seem to like it but I feel is not the same, is better than nothing. Try it you might like it.

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by Anonymous on Mar 31, 2017 at 8:57 AM

#1 True that!

I have the opposite problem. I last way to long for my wife. After she has an orgasm she is to sensitive to touch for a good bit. My timing though is the same as yours, it sucks.

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by Anonymous on Mar 31, 2017 at 9:48 PM

You can fix it.
Bring in another guy you trust and do her together.

And if you can't last, get some Viagra.
That's what it's there for.
And from experience, I can tell you that that shit works.

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by Anonymous on Apr 5, 2017 at 2:21 PM

Drinking just enough alcohol makes me last for an hour. Alcohol free and I'm in the 5 minute range.

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by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2017 at 5:56 AM

Try talking to a sex therapist.

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