I've been in the mood all day. I had the day off from work and couldn't wait till my wife got home from work. I had planned on an intimate supper and an even more intimate dessert. She had a hard day at work and wanted to talk about it. I have no problem with that. I'm here for her. I understand the need to vent, but after a couple of hours of it I'm not really in the mood to be intimate any more. She is now pissed off at me because I'm no longer feel like having sex because all she can do for the last three hours is bitch and complain. Not exactly sexy in my book. I want to be there for her and listen to her problems, but it's such a turn off when all she can do is whine about her day.