No, I beg to differ... just "needing to have only what another man can offer" is GAY! There is nothing wrong with being gay, come clean to your friends. If you are still turned on by woman too, then you are bi sexual! Either way, if your friends can't handle it, they are NOT your FRIENDS!!!
I agree with the last reply. They are not your friends if they won't accept you for being gay or bi or what ever. I miself have not come out as being a bisexual but I just don't feel that my friends deserve to know the real me!
ha. And because i don't wan't my family to ever know about my gay side. Anyways forget your friends and do what makes you happy.
You might just be supprised to find out that they already know your secret.
If some of them knew about what you need from another guy perhaps they would be happy to offer their services.