I sent this letter to her and I am waiting for an answer.

"I am the other woman. The one that your husband married and left you for. I am 20 years younger than you, but I am not more beautiful than you, or smarter or a better housekeeper or a better mother. What I am is younger. I have never been able to put my finger on why your husband chose to leave you to marry me. I didn't have more to offer, except like I said I am younger. I have the same college education you do, I got pregnant just like you.

I feel, but I don't know, that your husband wanted more children. I married him and I became pregnant pretty fast, he really wanted another family bing, bang, boom. So, he didn't want to be single again, or go gambling, or spend time with his buddies. He wanted to have a family and sit down to dinner and have Christmas morning. I am sure that when you had his first family you also sat down for dinner and had Christmas morning. So I still don't get it.

I want to reach out to you, I know that your economic circumstances are not good. I think about that a lot. I am living in a nice home in a nice neighborhood, not as nice a home or as nice a neighborhood you lived in before he divorced and married me, but still a nice neighborhood. But it is much nicer to where you live now. I know where you live because I grew up in that neighborhood. My mother was you, divorced with two kids and waiting for her child support check. I make sure that the child support check is in your bank account on the first of the month, before I pay any other bills. I think about that a lot.

I do not know why your husband wanted me and he chose to leave you. I really don't. He had me anyway, just not out in the open. So it can't be about sex. He had far more sex with me before he divorced and married me than he has now. Far more, I don't want to sound like that is what it was all about, but it was. It was about having sex, I waited for him to come by, we had sex and then I needed him to leave so I could go out with my friends. Now of course he has sex and spends the night, every night. And I sleep with one eye open in case one of the kids turns in their bed and I am wide awake. It must be a mother thing. What I am trying to say if it was about sex he would have kept me for sex and kept you for the family living.

I am not here to say I am sorry, I am not. I am talking to him about something that may make you nervous. I am talking to him about the idea of buying another house in the same neighborhood we live in so that you can move here and you don't have to live in the neighborhood you are in. I grew up there and I don't want your children growing up there. I am a mother now, I guess that is why I am thinking like this. You can pay rent, the same rent you pay now, but you live here, near us, where we can help each other. I need help with baby sitting, especially after school care. My kids are growing up and they will be in school soon. And I can help you, if anything help you live in a nicer home and your kids can go to high school here.

I think he is thinking about it, he got a big bonus and I put the money aside. It is enough for a down payment.

I sign off as Respectfully yours, my heart is open, will you come in?"

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by Anonymous on Jan 27, 2019 at 1:52 AM

Maybe you should go down on her first and seal the deal

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