Straight Male / 52
Older 50+ man here. After reading a recent post from a woman with four kids who had a husband who lost interest in sex, I felt compelled to share a somewhat unusual story.
Of course, it's common for women to lose interest in sex later in life. The recent post from a woman with four kids was about her husband losing interest (good post BTW).
The somewhat odd situation I found myself in was that my ultra conservative wife just wanted me for a bread winner and sperm donor. She'd starve me sexually until she wanted another baby. After 5 kids, I went to the doctor for "the snip" and she just freaking lost her mind. It was the biggest fight in our 25+ year long marriage.
I was done being her sperm donor. She was also the controlling, manipulative personality in the relationship. I was more of the 'pleaser', but again, I'd had enough. I intended to stay in the relationship for my children's sake, but I dreamed of the day when they were old enough for me to divorce her ass.
I had remained faithful for the first 11 years of marriage, but a work trip opportunity with a sexy co-worker was too much temptation and I had my first taste of adulterous sex. It was fucking hot. But I didn't stray again for another 7 years. Once again, it was with a woman at work who managed Human Resources (talk about ironic!). She was engaged to be married but struggled with making that commitment to a man that she wasn't sure about. We got together 4 or 5 times over the course of several months. The guilt was crushing for her and we broke it off, but damn I missed her. She was so sweet, fucking hot and sexy and very passionate.
After that, Craigslist personals became a fun hobby that lasted for several years. I eventually met my new wife via 'casual encounters' in Craigslist. A truly wonderful woman and we're very happy together.
I endured about 2 very painful years of separation/divorce with the ex-wife, but looking back, it was fucking worth it.
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