Ignore the last post. I hit enter too early.

I am currently experimenting with both sexes (wouldn't say I'm bi yet, but I just don't know). I'm extremely comfortable with myself, and with others. Even if I wasn't attracted to guys, none of this would get on my nerves. I just need to know an opinion from a completely straight guy, about sharing room/floor with other people. I've never done this before.

Please take this seriously; I need to know my limits.

Would you be comfortable if your (male, supposedly straight) roommate:

Walked around the room/floor (there is a difference)
1. shirtless? (I figured, but will still ask)
2. in boxers (with/without shirt)?
3. in boxerbriefs (with/without shirt)?
4. in briefs (with/without shirt)?

Slept
5. naked?
6. in underwear?

7. if he dresses in the room, including changing underwear?

8. arranges private time to jerk off, or a signal to "do not enter"? (is this discussion material or not? I mean, eveyrone does it...)
9. jerks off, announced/planned? even with straight porn? (not making a show out of it, but not pretending it doesn't happen)
10. jerks off unannounced/"secretly", like in bed at night?
11. jerks off while you are, not talking to you or looking at you (could make you more comfortable about doing it)

None of this bothers me. We all have the same parts and do the same things, so it's a waste of time to pretend we don't.

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by Anonymous on Feb 15, 2008 at 3:13 PM

As long as my roommate isn't hitting on me, I don't have any problems. A little modesty is nice, but it wouldn't bother me to see you in briefs or boxer-briefs from time to time. Boxers are definitely okay. If I saw anyone in whity-tighties in the hallway, I might be a little uncomfortable or at the least confused.

Sleep wearing whatever you want, as long as it's not next to me. If you sleep in your birthday suit, cover up before you get out of bed, or at least immediately when you get out. Change in the room, whatever clothes you need to, that's the point of living in a room.

Bring up jacking off as a joking subject, but wait a few days after you get to know me. We'll probably come to some kind of agreement. Me personally, I don't mind if we walk in on each other, and letting the other finish up, either leaving or staying in the room. Accidents happen, and people do what they do. But please don't start with me already in the room if you can at all control yourself. When the lights are out, do it and I'll either join you or pretend to be asleep. I'd expect the same courtesy in all of these situations.

I'm sure this differs from person to person, but that is my input. Now if I could only say that to my roommate...

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