I am a a 16 year old girl and i think i have fallen in love. I met this lad about 4 months ago and we started going out a month later. I like everything about him, i loved spending every moment with him, i thought it was perfect abd he felt the same way..... So here's the problem. we split up n my world fell apart. Now all i can do is wish that i was back with him and im driving my friends mad from constantly talking bout him. In my efforts to get over him i demnaded that my friends charge me 5p everytime i mentioned him but it didn't work, and i jst ended up broke! This lad means so much to me, we did lots of stuff together and we got really close, i thought it was meant to be and i still feel he is the one for me dspite the fact that he seems to like another girl now. But i can't understand why? She's fat, ugly and common, i'm so much better but apparently not to him. Does anyone have any advice, either how to get him back or get over him because i can't carry on like this..... please reply asap.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 22, 2005 at 11:15 PM

She is fat?
Ugly?
& common?

(1)Maybe this guy dumped you because your self-centered, egocentric, and snobby?

(2)Maybe he is more mature than you, and can see that relationships are not built on appearance alone--but on long lasting friendships built on personality?

(3)Maybe he dumped you b/c he wanted to use you for sex, and you didn't put out.

(4)Maybe you should just concentrate on yourself right now, and become the amazing, intellectual, and brilliant woman that will mature inside you (if you nurture her).
OR
Go find another man to fulfill the things inside of you, that you can't do for yourself.

YOU ARE BETTER ON YOUR OWN.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 26, 2005 at 12:05 AM

thanx 4 that but i do not agree with you calling me a 'self-centered, egocentric, and snobby?' i am not any of these things, i am just honest.

I am better than her and i now realise that this is because i no longer have him. I am moving on...... sort of.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 26, 2005 at 3:59 PM

Love sucks at times but time does heal so call it a learning experience and move on; not easy, but not impossible.

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