As I got older, I would spend time exploring it. As a teenager, I would even prop a hand mirror against the pillow so I could watch myself masturbate.
I knew what felt good, how I like it, and what it would take to bring me to orgasm.
I took on younger male lovers, as a way to teach them how to pleasure a woman.
I took on female lovers as a way to share my love of the female body.
I am now in my 30's, and totally comfortable with my sex.
I know how to give great head (so I'm told); I love a hot, hard fuck. I also enjoy the tenderness that a woman can give.
I hope that every woman and man can take the time to really enjoy the vagina. Don't be in a hurry! Great love making is better enjoyed when you take time to explore your lover.