Okay, and I know there are already posts like this someplace on here, and Ive read them, but most of those answers were from men and I dont want that
Its all up to you. If you don't want to shave then don't. Some guys like hair, most don't care much either way, only a few will actually care about if you shave.
The only reason I would shave if I didn't want to is if I REALLY liked the guy, AND he was shaved too.
How about a compromise?
Trim down there neatly with nail scissors. Leave about 1/2 inch. This is not as wild as totally bare, but it won't gross out a guy who doesn't like hair.
let me just explain something, were only up to kissing and i said were probably gonna start getting a little heavier, i havent seen his dick yet, he hasnt seen anything on me
Believe me, he's getting annoyed. Just grab his package, show him your naughty bits and go to it. It's nothing either of you haven't seen before.
FACT #3: Guys HATE waiting, for anything.
what happened to facts 1 & 2?
Fact 4. So do many girls.