I'm 22, married for 4 years. I met Gary at work, and one thing led to another, and now we're having a relationship. Everyone at work knows it; we're not hiding anything. Gary is 4 years older than me, also married.
Yes, I know we're stupid, but here's the problem:
One of the bosses told me that if I didn't start meeting him after work once a week for sex, that he would tell both our spouses. He gave me till noon Friday to decide.
I'm literally fucked... what do I do? If my husband finds out, he'll divorce me and take our daughter. Gary's wife will take him to the cleaners.Man, I was really stupid to start this...