I am a very strong woman emotionally and well i guess physically too. but the thing that gets me is the fact that having a strong will men seem to be scared or intimidated by it. i mean either that or they want to rule you. I just want a man that will stand beside me and everyonce in a while hold me and tell me everything will be okay. i am a single mom my son is almost four and i have raises him by my self. i don't cry or weep or wail. but sometimes i want to not physically but it's just that i wish someone was there to tell me everything is okay when i do get like that or when life gets to be to much but since i am strong people don't think i feel this way. and i don't know how to deal with it sometimes. it just seems like i am weak in a why but i know i'm not is it wrong to want another person to be there for you. I mean i do have friends but they don't always understand what i am going thru because they are married. i am the only single one just about. plus i have this other problem there is this guy i go to college with that i thought i had feelings for and we dated for about 3 weeks but i found out i don't feel that way about him and i want to be friends but i a friend told me he told her that he is in love with me and i don't know what to do cause i don't want to hurt his feelings. i mean it is just hard because we are still friends but he calls me like everyday and wants to talk forever and i just sometimes wish he would go away. i don't know why i feel this way. I think it might have been cause i didn't think i could have him then i got him now i don't want him but i am not skinny so i don't have men falling all over me. It is just hard for me to deal with. i don't know what to do. Or it could be the fact that i think he is gay. i mean i am not the only one to think that either. so it isn't i think that so i don't feek bad. but he is avid that he is not i wonder if he is just fighting it.