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My Cheating Heart
Infidelity. Cheating. It can weigh you down. If you've been unfaithful to a boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse, you should know that confession is good for the soul.

Tell AdultConfessions.com about what you did, when you did it, and who you did it with. Was it a neighbor? A co-worker? An in-law even? Maybe you had a lapse on a business trip, or you're maintaining a cyber-relationship. Heck, do you have multiple spouses? We want to know!
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    I had a friend I had known for years who I had met because he had problems and needed to talk to someone. The person he ended up speaking to was me. I didn't mind it so much at first, I was happy to help him, but after a while I began to suspect he wanted more to our friendship than I did. He was phoning me several times a week and sending me letters. He told me he was self-harming which I am aware a lot of people do and I used to do myself a long time ago. But then when he did it, he apologised to me, as if it was my problem.

    Anyway, we had a mutual friend who liked me as more than a friend and I was unaware of this for a while. The screwed up friend was aware of this and insinuated to the one who liked me that there was something between him (the one with problems) and me, when as far as I was concerned there definitely wasn't. Luckily, this didn't deter the one who liked me from pursuing me; in the end I got to know him and we started going out with each other.

    Obviously my friend with problems wasn't happy about this, and started trying to cause problems for us from the word go. He also told lies about me behind my back to some of my other friends, which obviously upset me as I had been there for him for a few months by this time. Nothing was ever really said about all this, although my boyfriend and me sometimes argued after the screwed up one had been causing trouble.

    After a few years, my boyfriend and I split up and I began to see more of my friend with problems. I was prepared to let bygones be bygones and he seemed to have matured a lot by then. We became closer and one night ended up kissing. I wasn't really sure how I felt about him, whether I wanted him as a boyfriend, or whether we should leave things as they were. I fancied and liked him a lot by this time, but I wasn't sure whether it would work out as a relationship between us. I knew how much he thought about me and I thought of him as a great friend, but I knew I would never care or love him as much as he would about me. Plus there was someone else who I had a bit of a thing about. He was unreliable and I knew a relationship with him wouldn't work out, but the chemistry between us was great and although I've not been around much, I was sure a bit of a fling wouldn't do any harm.

    In the end I went out with my friend with problems, and it was nice, but it was apparent to me from quite early on that the chemistry between us just wasn't there. I told him from the start that I wasn't too sure about what I wanted from our relationship, but he said that was fine with him. I was also thinking about the other one that I liked quite a lot. One of the problems I was having in my relationship though was that we were not having sex. My boyfriend had something wrong with him and was physically unable to make love to me. Although we were having oral sex, we never had actual penetration which was extremely frustrating. The lack of physical closeness between us also meant that it was harder to be emotionally close. I wouldn't have minded buying a strap on or something, or using other forms of penetration, but being a virgin he didn't know what he was missing out on, and I didn't know how to approach the subject. He was very sensitive about most issues, and I was afraid of insulting his masculinity. But I did think the world of him, and despite the lack of sex I found myself falling in love with him. I told him this one night which I regretted after what happened next.

    In the end the inevitable happened. The lack of sex was almost killing me, I wanked so much I almost wore out my clitoris, but it still wasn't enough. I used to see quite a lot of the friend I had a crush on, and one night we got drunk and ended up sleeping together. I realised things couldn't go on as they were, I knew that I couldn't stay with my boyfriend if I was going to end up doing this kind of thing to him. I had only had two boyfriends before, but infidelity was something I looked down on and I had never been unfaithful before.

    My boyfriend was devastated when I told him. I didn't tell him the real reason, but told him instead that I didn't want a relationship. He just couldn't understand it when things seemed to him to have been going so well. I made sure I was there for him after we split up as we had agreed to remain friends, and we saw each other at least once a week. In the end though he decided that he just couldn't handle being friends and now we don't see each other at all.

    He says he's lonely, but he tries to make friends with people, especially girls, by telling them all his problems as soon as he meets them. People tend to feel sorry for him from the start, but then he becomes too clingy and that's it, he's there in your face all the time. I know for a fact that sometimes he makes up problems just to get sympathy. I feel sorry for him sometimes, but he does nothing to help himself. He just gets off on sympathy, but can't seem to see this. Or rather, he knows about it but doesn't want to do anything about it. When I started going out with him this was something I thought he had stopped doing, otherwise I would never have become his girlfriend in the first place. I am convinced he decided he "couldn't be friends" with me any more just so he had another problem to add to his list to tell people, which I guess showed he can't have cared that much about me in the first place. I know I was wrong to sleep with someone else, but after I was there for him so many times and all the trouble he caused me when I was with my previous boyfriend I have just lost patience with him and he can fuck off as far as I'm concerned.

    #991 — Comments (0) — May 29, 2003 at 1:19 AM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove This.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    I'm in a relationship with a guy i care for very deeply for about 5 months. When I told him that i was bisexual... he kind of got happy about it and asked how would i feel about a threesome. I said sure... so ever since then he's been on my back about having one. It's become very annoying to the point where i want to leave him. But once the threesome issue came up, I've cheated on my boyfriend with 4 different men on several occassions. I only had sex with two but the other two i gave head once or twice. And what's so messed up... i don't regret ne of them. He just gets on my nerves so much that i needed to get away from him with someone else. I've never been a faithful person. I've cheated on every man i've ever dated. I need some help.. ne body have ne suggestions?

    - a cheating heart

    #990 — Comments (5) — May 10, 2003 at 10:33 AM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove This.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    My husband and I badly wanted a child and we attended a fertility clinic for 2 years unsuccesfully--he has a low sperm count! I was so desperate to have a child that when I was away on bussiness I picked up a stranger who looked like my husband gave him a false name and ended up having sex with him. I planned it for when I was ovulating. My beautiful daughter is now 9 months old and my husband thinks she is his and loves her to bits! Absolutely no-one else knows not even the biological father but I am racked with guilt!! what should I do??

    #989 — Comments (11) — Apr 29, 2003 at 4:03 PM — That's Juicy! (1) Remove This.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    One day, when my wife was at work my neighbours live in girlfriend came over and asked if she could borrow my plunger because her sink was clogged up. i ran upstairs to grab it but when i got to my door, she was just walking into her house. i shouldn't have, but, i brought the plunger over to their door, and knocked. She called out for me to come in and when I did she wasn't in the kitchen. I walked into the living room and there she was lying on the couch. She reached up and rubbed me with one hand, while she pulled down my shorts with the other. She then performed oral sex on me until i ejaculated all over the couch. To make things worse my wife and she have recently become good friends, and she is over all the time.My guilt is becoming too unbearable to deal with

    #988 — Comments (18) — Feb 7, 2003 at 11:28 PM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove This.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    Well, my wife saw my scratches, and shit hit the fan. I begged forgiveness, asked for marriage counseling, to no avail.
    I am now living in a weekly motel room. I know I screwed up...I can never forgive myself for the hurt I caused....

    #987 — Comments (4) — Jan 16, 2003 at 8:59 AM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove This.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    I'm a lousy bastard..... I woke up this morning after a major drunk fest with the butt ugliest woman ever.
    After she left, I looked in the mirror. She left deep fingernail scratches all over my back, sides and butt.I don't know how I'm going to hide this from my wife.....I'm a creep...........

    #986 — Comments (1) — Jan 8, 2003 at 9:27 AM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove This.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    im am married to a wonderful man who for the first time in my life im not afraid of. my first husband was very abusive and it took alot of courage for my to leave him. after i did i took control of my life and ive kept control all these years. i married my second husband out of loneliness but i do love him. the problem is after years of thinking id never do any better i found someone that i am in love with and im afraid because im not in control of things anymore. my husband is younger than me and me leaving would hurt him but im also the not so niave that i beleive that he couldnt live without me. he can. just as i can live without him afraid of being alone is the thing that keeps up together. we love each other,yes, but not the way two people who will spend their lives together will.this other man is a friend of my husbands and he is also married and although we both tried attraction got the better of us and now im in the position of being afraid of wha can happen if i give up my organized life for the unknown. but at the same time i have all this fear i cant stop thinking about him. i hear him talking to me all the time in my mind. i find myself wondering how he would respond to situations i find myself in at different times through the day. i dont know what to do. i think im to old for the schoolgirl fantasies i have about us but they they are every day. i see this man once a week privately and everyday at work so its hard to maintain a distance. he seems to know what im thinking and feeling all the time.im afraid and thrilled all at once. i dont want to be 31 and divorced twice, without any idea where my life is headed. worse is i dont want to be responsible for breaking up his marrage even though he says it has been over for 10 years.

    #985 — Comments (5) — Dec 18, 2002 at 2:47 PM — That's Juicy! (2) Remove This.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    I had a affair with this man and we were all into it when i reached down to grab his cock and it was soft. He was a older man so i guess he couldnt get it up anymore. But he should have told me before i got all heavy. So i made him eat me until i cummed then i left. I wont be see him any time soon

    #984 — Comments (5) — Nov 24, 2002 at 7:54 AM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove This.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    I started talk to guys on the internet. Im married with children. I know it wrong but i enjoy it. So i got really close to this guy and decided to meet him. We hit it off and continued to talk. He asked if i would meet him one day and i did. We had the best sex ever. And now i want more. I know its wrong but i think i deserve it since my husband isnt that great in bed.

    #983 — Comments (4) — Nov 17, 2002 at 7:32 AM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove This.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    I married a dream. He is rich in his own right with a growing business, looks like a movie star, loved me madly and built with a full 11 inches. And still I screwed up!
    One Friday I hung out with the people I work with because my husband was on a buying trip in China. Before I knew it I was making out with the office dreamboat; a little pot and a lot a liquor and I let him screw me. My husband came home the next week; two weeks later I missed my period. I was pregnant! We had wanted a baby and now we were getting one. I was overjoyed. I forgot my Friday night affair. And then the baby came. My white knight had a black grandmother!

    I'm out on my ass with only myself to blame. I'd do anything to undo the hurt I caused and to win him back, but I killed his love forever.

    #981 — Comments (2) — Sep 15, 2002 at 11:00 PM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove This.
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