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My Cheating Heart
Infidelity. Cheating. It can weigh you down. If you've been unfaithful to a boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse, you should know that confession is good for the soul.

Tell AdultConfessions.com about what you did, when you did it, and who you did it with. Was it a neighbor? A co-worker? An in-law even? Maybe you had a lapse on a business trip, or you're maintaining a cyber-relationship. Heck, do you have multiple spouses? We want to know!
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    I confess, it can really suck to be a guy. All I do is think about sex ALL the time. I get off whith my girl, and fifteen minutes later it all starts again-sex-sex-sex. God forbid I'm off and she's working. I'll get on this computer and look at porn all day. I get on my Kazaa and download a ton of free porn. I probably jack it twice, then get some from my girl.

    #1000 — Comments (0) — Oct 1, 2003 at 4:37 PM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove It.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    Ok I have been with my bf for over 2 years now...but i have cheated on him like 5 times...I have no idea y i do it ...and i really do love him...

    I am talkin an messin with his cousins husband now....

    #999 — Comments (4) — Sep 10, 2003 at 10:45 PM — That's Juicy! (1) Remove It.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    This is a long story. I have a friend that I have known since I was a teenager. I always cheated on my other girlfriends (and she on her boyfriends), whenever we would get together. This went on until I went to college, and we lost touch. I never thought I'd see her again.....

    I got married, and after a few years, my wife and I grew apart. I really needed her to be more giving, supportive and mature. I needed a partner, not someone who would just take and not give. (This is a weakness in her character, even she will admit). We got into financial trouble (both of our faults), but I wanted to start working harder to pay off the debt. She did not. She just watched me work harder and harder, and had to confiscate the credit cards from her, so I could stop her spending. She wasnted to open up a business (which I said would not be a good idea, since we were trying to pay off debt, and should not take out another loan). She went behind my back and borrowed from her sister. She then started the business, but really wasn't working, she was just going into the office every day, but not really trying to make any money to contribute to the family debt I was working so hard to pay off. I was so angry with her for not being a partner with me, for disrespecting me by not waiting to start the business, as I had asked her to, and then after starting the business, she still was no help, because she was still not really working. I became really unhappy, distant, and depressed. I felt as if I was in a relationship all by myself.

    It was really bad, and one day my friend from long ago called me to ask me if I would let her neice come and intern with me in my business. I was so happy to hear from her! I of course said yes. Over the course of the next two years, the neice came to my state and spent a week or two with me a an intern. In the meantime, my friend would lend an ear to my problems, and even suggested that my wife and I go to marriage counseling. I did not want to do that, because I felt like she had the problem, but would not go seek help heeeerself. I could not understand why my wife just wouldn't be a partner to me. Every time I would see my friend (when the neice would come to spend the week with me,) I could sense the attraction and tension between my friend and I, but we kept it platonic, and focused on her neice having a good learning experience.

    Over the course of time, my friend and I became closer than we had ever become before. She was dating, and I was still at home, and working myself into the grave....

    One day when we were talking on the phone, my friend said she could not see or talk to me anymore. She said she had loved me since we were children, and she could not bear to see me suffer as I had, and she could not pretend that she did not care for me. I told her I had always loved her, but thought that we could never be together, especialy since I was married. I asked her to not shut me out of her life.

    I needed to get away one weekend, and went to the state where my friend lives. To cut to the chase, we made love. The best part was I felt she truly cared for me, and I had not felt that way in such a long time.

    Soon after, I told my wife I would need to move out. Partly because of my friend, partly because I had such anger toward my wife, I had lost much of my loving feelings for her I once had, and partly because being there was too stressful. I figured I was already pretty much living for, and by myslef, so I might as well not continue to do that in that stressful environment.

    Now, I have to deal with the extreme guilt of having an affair, and lying to my wife. I have to decide whether to get divorced.

    The thing about it is that I never wanted things to turn out this way. If things were good between my wife and I, I would have never given in to the temptation of being with my friend. During my many-year marriage, I had never cheated before, and I felt as if my wife had opened up that door by her selfishness, lack of respect and caring.

    I loved being married and having a family, but she did not take care of the realtionship or me, as she should have.

    I wish I could use all of this "ammunition" to justify what I have done, but I can't, and still feel guilty, and I know I am wrong. I cannot bring myself to ask for a divorce, because I know, deep in my heart, I do not want it, but I also know I don't want to go back to the life I lived before. And by the way, my wife has done little to change since I left. She says she doesn't see any point in making any change unless we are getting back together.

    Dazed and Confused

    #997 — Comments (4) — Aug 15, 2003 at 4:00 PM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove It.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    me and my wife had my brother inlaws 20y/o girlfreind spend
    the night becouse my wife was going away the next day and
    she was watching my kids well that night she got in bed with us just joking around I thought next thing I knew she had a hold of my cock and my fingers were in her while my wife was sleeping the next day I came home early and we had sex 5 times now she lives in another state .But my neighbors
    wife told me yesterday she wants to have a affair and I think I would love it but not sure if I will

    #996 — Comments (2) — Aug 12, 2003 at 3:55 PM — That's Juicy! (3) Remove It.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    Ever get caught having sex with someone other then your spouse, and it turned into a threesome?
    please post reply

    #995 — Comments (3) — Aug 6, 2003 at 12:07 PM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove It.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    I have strong feelings for the manager at work. At first we were just friends but now I think it may be something more. If it ever got to be anything more we both would be fired and plus that would mean cheating on my boyfriend of 3 years. I don't want to do that to him but at the same time I can't help but feel this strong attraction to my manager.
    The manager and I are the only 19 year olds working at a small town movie theater were everyone is either younger or older so its hard to to connect with other people because of the age difference. We are always drawn to each other. Since I can't quit because In the small town I live in there are few other jobs and I can't ask to work with other managers because he's one of 2 what should I do?

    #994 — Comments (3) — Jul 3, 2003 at 8:18 PM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove It.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    i was going with this guy for about 8 months my first love we got along good but he was always afraid i was going to cheat on him well i got sick of it and i cheated on him we broke up but he still don't knowwhat do i do?

    #993 — Comments (3) — Jun 17, 2003 at 6:30 PM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove It.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    ... but I don't. My husband and I have been living far apart due to circumstance for over a year. We love each other very much, but our sex life has been virtually nonexistent for the past 5+ years, much to my dismay. After over a decade of fidelity, I went out and picked a guy up and slept with him--barely. Unfortunately, he turned out to be ultra vanilla: no tongue kissing, didn't like oral sex (for him!) and he lasted about 30 seconds. What I feel worst about is picking a loser to cheat with, not the cheating itself. My goal now is to be more choosy. I don't want another relationship--I love my husband. I just want some hot sex with someone who's not a prude. My husband will never know about this because, frankly, it's not a big deal emotionally. I just feel like a jerk for "wasting" my cheat.

    What I *do* feel bad about is getting way too drunk and bullying some nice girl in a bar and calling her a tease because she wouldn't kiss me.

    #992 — Comments (1) — Jun 8, 2003 at 2:37 PM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove It.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    I had a friend I had known for years who I had met because he had problems and needed to talk to someone. The person he ended up speaking to was me. I didn't mind it so much at first, I was happy to help him, but after a while I began to suspect he wanted more to our friendship than I did. He was phoning me several times a week and sending me letters. He told me he was self-harming which I am aware a lot of people do and I used to do myself a long time ago. But then when he did it, he apologised to me, as if it was my problem.

    Anyway, we had a mutual friend who liked me as more than a friend and I was unaware of this for a while. The screwed up friend was aware of this and insinuated to the one who liked me that there was something between him (the one with problems) and me, when as far as I was concerned there definitely wasn't. Luckily, this didn't deter the one who liked me from pursuing me; in the end I got to know him and we started going out with each other.

    Obviously my friend with problems wasn't happy about this, and started trying to cause problems for us from the word go. He also told lies about me behind my back to some of my other friends, which obviously upset me as I had been there for him for a few months by this time. Nothing was ever really said about all this, although my boyfriend and me sometimes argued after the screwed up one had been causing trouble.

    After a few years, my boyfriend and I split up and I began to see more of my friend with problems. I was prepared to let bygones be bygones and he seemed to have matured a lot by then. We became closer and one night ended up kissing. I wasn't really sure how I felt about him, whether I wanted him as a boyfriend, or whether we should leave things as they were. I fancied and liked him a lot by this time, but I wasn't sure whether it would work out as a relationship between us. I knew how much he thought about me and I thought of him as a great friend, but I knew I would never care or love him as much as he would about me. Plus there was someone else who I had a bit of a thing about. He was unreliable and I knew a relationship with him wouldn't work out, but the chemistry between us was great and although I've not been around much, I was sure a bit of a fling wouldn't do any harm.

    In the end I went out with my friend with problems, and it was nice, but it was apparent to me from quite early on that the chemistry between us just wasn't there. I told him from the start that I wasn't too sure about what I wanted from our relationship, but he said that was fine with him. I was also thinking about the other one that I liked quite a lot. One of the problems I was having in my relationship though was that we were not having sex. My boyfriend had something wrong with him and was physically unable to make love to me. Although we were having oral sex, we never had actual penetration which was extremely frustrating. The lack of physical closeness between us also meant that it was harder to be emotionally close. I wouldn't have minded buying a strap on or something, or using other forms of penetration, but being a virgin he didn't know what he was missing out on, and I didn't know how to approach the subject. He was very sensitive about most issues, and I was afraid of insulting his masculinity. But I did think the world of him, and despite the lack of sex I found myself falling in love with him. I told him this one night which I regretted after what happened next.

    In the end the inevitable happened. The lack of sex was almost killing me, I wanked so much I almost wore out my clitoris, but it still wasn't enough. I used to see quite a lot of the friend I had a crush on, and one night we got drunk and ended up sleeping together. I realised things couldn't go on as they were, I knew that I couldn't stay with my boyfriend if I was going to end up doing this kind of thing to him. I had only had two boyfriends before, but infidelity was something I looked down on and I had never been unfaithful before.

    My boyfriend was devastated when I told him. I didn't tell him the real reason, but told him instead that I didn't want a relationship. He just couldn't understand it when things seemed to him to have been going so well. I made sure I was there for him after we split up as we had agreed to remain friends, and we saw each other at least once a week. In the end though he decided that he just couldn't handle being friends and now we don't see each other at all.

    He says he's lonely, but he tries to make friends with people, especially girls, by telling them all his problems as soon as he meets them. People tend to feel sorry for him from the start, but then he becomes too clingy and that's it, he's there in your face all the time. I know for a fact that sometimes he makes up problems just to get sympathy. I feel sorry for him sometimes, but he does nothing to help himself. He just gets off on sympathy, but can't seem to see this. Or rather, he knows about it but doesn't want to do anything about it. When I started going out with him this was something I thought he had stopped doing, otherwise I would never have become his girlfriend in the first place. I am convinced he decided he "couldn't be friends" with me any more just so he had another problem to add to his list to tell people, which I guess showed he can't have cared that much about me in the first place. I know I was wrong to sleep with someone else, but after I was there for him so many times and all the trouble he caused me when I was with my previous boyfriend I have just lost patience with him and he can fuck off as far as I'm concerned.

    #991 — Comments (0) — May 29, 2003 at 1:19 AM — That's Juicy! (0) Remove It.
  • — My Cheating Heart —
    Posted by Anonymous

    I'm in a relationship with a guy i care for very deeply for about 5 months. When I told him that i was bisexual... he kind of got happy about it and asked how would i feel about a threesome. I said sure... so ever since then he's been on my back about having one. It's become very annoying to the point where i want to leave him. But once the threesome issue came up, I've cheated on my boyfriend with 4 different men on several occassions. I only had sex with two but the other two i gave head once or twice. And what's so messed up... i don't regret ne of them. He just gets on my nerves so much that i needed to get away from him with someone else. I've never been a faithful person. I've cheated on every man i've ever dated. I need some help.. ne body have ne suggestions?

    - a cheating heart

    #990 — Comments (5) — May 10, 2003 at 10:33 AM — That's Juicy! (1) Remove It.
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